I’m no mind reader, but I know, at some point, you’ve already wondered what goes on in the minds of men. Case in point, would you be surprised if I told you they don’t care as much for looks as we’ve been led to believe our whole lives?
Yap, there’s a lot out there about what men like and find attractive that’s nothing more than propaganda. I mean, don’t you think that if they cared about our new clothes, they’d, at least, comment on them? The fact is, most of those things were simply advertised so someone you don’t even know could make money off of it. Cruel, right? But you know what’s even worse? The worst part is that most of us are still pretty clueless to what men actually find attractive.
So, to solve that problem, here are 3 traits – that have nothing to do with looks – that men are guaranteed to be smitten over:
3 Traits All Men Find Attractive
Being Open And Engaging
Seriously, is there anything that’s more attractive than someone giving us their undivided attention?
How do you feel when a man shows a genuine interest in you and wants to find out more? Makes you feel like, in his eyes, you have something special, doesn’t it? Well, for a man, it’s the same thing.
Now, here’s a secret about men that they’re dying for you to find out: they love being admired! And even more than loving it, it’s something that they need to feel loved.
You see, while women love being told we’re beautiful, and that’s something very important to us – telling a man we respect him does the same thing for him. In truth, a man can only feel deeply loved, when he feels you genuinely respect him. In his mind, if you don’t feel respect for him, there’s no reason why you’d love him.
So, here, admiration is similar. When we’re open, engaging and present – and especially when we’re doing this while smiling and looking him in the eyes – he’s going to feel admired by you and won’t help but feel attracted by this unique and one-of-a-kind woman (you).
Self Acceptance And a Deep Inner Connection With Ourselves
Say what you like, but there’s nothing more amazing than someone being unapologetic about themselves. There’s just this authenticity about them, this acceptance that makes anyone feel completely comfortable and free to be whoever they are.
And, especially for men, this holds some importance. You see, most women don’t realise this, but men are constantly under pressure. They’re supposed to be the tough ones, the leaders, the ones always in control. But like all human beings, they have feelings too. The difference between men and women is that, more and more, women are being accepted for their emotional nature; while men still face a lot of scrutiny and prejudice for showing their feelings.
So, for them, it’s especially attractive when they find a woman that has accepted herself and has strengthened her inner connection – because it gives them an opening to let go.
Keep in mind that the more connected you are with yourself, the more you allow him to express himself freely and feel comfortable in your presence. Because there’s nothing we all love more than to feel like we are completely accepted and appreciated for who we are.
This must feel like an obvious one, but there’s more to it than you think. You see, being feminine isn’t just about how we look or how we walk; it’s about how we think and feel, too.
Men, unlike us, are much more practical and logical. They have a genuine difficulty understanding emotions – see why here. But when you come around, open, receptive, whole-heartedly – he’s going to feel there’s something different about you.
Think of most women, nowadays. Most women out there have lost touch with their inner goddess and became what people call “a strong woman”. In truth, strong women aren’t that attractive because they lost this one thing – femininity. And, even more, they lost this ability to allow their partner to feel emotions with them.
Think of it this way: In their day-to-day lives, men are constantly using logic and practicality to deal with things. They seldom have a chance to loosen up. But when a woman is being feminine, what this means is that she’s being present, she’s accepting him for who he is, and she’s being receptive.
Ladies, again, men have difficulty dealing with feelings. That’s why they like us. Because with us, they can experience things that they normally don’t; and those positive emotions get anchored to how they feel about us. That’s why it’s so important that we learn to get in touch with our inner goddesses – so we can help him do the same too.
Just remember to ease into to it, though. Let him be the one to set the pace for emotional talk, and go along with his rhythm. Even though that’s something he cherishes about you, you never want to overwhelm him with emotion.
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