Imagine this: You meet a beautiful, lively woman you find yourself immediately attracted to. Time slows down when she laughs and you can’t help but being fascinated at the way she moves. She’s feminine, confident and an absolute delight to spend time with. And now you wonder if this girl likes you, if you can make a move.
Asking a girl out can be a scary experience, as well as going for the first kiss and pretty much everything else if in the back of your mind you’re wondering if she likes you or not. And you don’t need me to tell you that rejection hurts like a kick to the groin.
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So of course it would make sense that some of the most valuable information to have about a woman is how she feels about you. Wouldn’t you like to know if she fantasizes about you? Or at least have a heads up if she thinks of you as a “great friend”.
Fortunately, even though it often seems they speak a different language, a woman will give away some very clear psychological signs that she’s interested if only you know what to look out for. No more nervous wondering if you should ask her out. With these tricks under your belt, you’ll know exactly how she feels about you.
The Way She Angles Her Body
There’s a lot that her body can tell you.
When a woman is attracted, you become the prime target of her focus. This will be clear by how she displays her body language.
You’ll find her body is completely facing you and she’ll tend to lean in towards you. Look at her feet, bellybutton and shoulders and make sure they’re all pointing at you.
If She Giggles And Acts Silly
Women get nervous too, especially in the company of someone they’re attracted to.
It’s quite common to find women giggling more than usual when they’re in the presence of a man they like. It’s a way of trying to make him like her and most women don’t even know why they’re doing it – it’s just stronger than them to be all smiles and giggles.
Look out for other signs that she might be a little nervous as well. If she says something stupid which she clearly seems to regret the second after; or if you find her blushing, those are excellent signs she’s clearly nervous to be in your presence.
She Plays With Her Hair
Have you ever noticed how sometimes women start playing with their hair, curling it, gently pulling on it and running their fingers through it?
As it turns out, that’s an unconscious behaviour women engage in to make themselves appear more attractive.
When a woman is attracted to someone, she wants him to be attracted to her back. This combination of hoping she looks pretty and not knowing what to do with her hands leads to this behaviour.
If you see a woman smiling as she plays with her hair, it’s a very positive sign she wants to look pretty for you.
Through Her Eye Contact
There is so much information we can infer from a person’s eyes. I could, for instance, tell you all about how a woman’s pupils will dilate slightly every time she looks at a man she’s attracted to – but it’s easier than that.
You can tell she’s attracted to you if you see her looking at you, then down and off to one side, all while smiling. This is a shy response – it’s her trying not to be too obvious about how much she wants to look at you.
A woman who is more comfortable in your presence (if she’s more confident or if you’ve built some more rapport) won’t feel the need to look away. If you see a woman staring at you and smiling (especially if at a relatively close distance), she’s most likely imagining what it would be like to kiss you. If she’s staring and biting her lip, she’s imagining much more (wink).
She Touches You Often
This is easily among the most noticeable. How frequently a woman touches you will depend greatly on how confident she is to do so, but it’ll be noticeable either way.
Shier women may try to avoid touching you at all, in which case you’ll see them raise their hands as they giggle and quickly bring them back down, as if attempting to suppress their desire.
Most women, though, will take up any excuse to feel your arms. The bolder ones will do the same for your chest and abdomen.
The reasons they do this varies, sometimes it’s just automatic – she only even realised she was touching you after the fact. This is an unconscious behaviour of seduction, trying to get closer and more intimate with you.
Other times, it’s a planned maneuver so she can feel what your muscles are like under that shirt.
She Tests You
It may come to a point she suddenly starts acting bitchy or semi-playfully trying to order you around.
A lot of guys are put off by this, even more are taken completely by surprise and don’t know what to do. If that was your case, you can relax, this is not her actual personality. All you have to do is hold fast and not let her push you around.
This sudden change in behaviour confuses a lot of guys, and oftentimes leads them away. Women do this as a way to test you. They need to make sure you really are a man and not just acting as one.
This means that the more a girl is hit on, the more likely she is to give you these tests as she has to weed out a lot more men.
Make no mistake, though, if she is testing you, it’s because she’s already interested.
She Tries To Find Out More About You
We live in the era of Social Media. If a woman is interested, she’ll want to learn as much as is humanly possible about you.
If it just so happens that in the middle of a conversation she reveals to know something about you you hadn’t told her – she’s interested at least enough to want to find out more. You can be sure she’s been stalking your online profile as much as possible without being too creepy about it.
You may also find she gets more inquisitive about you. She’ll try and uncover your life story one date at a time. And when a woman is interested, you’ll be surprised how well she remembers the details.
This is also the stage she’ll share more information about herself as she tries to build a connection with you.
So now you can tell when she’s attracted, but that’s only the tip of the iceberg. If you want to learn what makes a man attractive, check out the post below: